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Through a Child's Eyes: the Unsquashed Will

Through a Child's Eyes: the Unsquashed Will

A reader conversation: When childhood anxiety was misunderstood as willfulness that needed tamed

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Sarah Stankorb
Feb 03, 2023
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“Crying” - Sarah

This week, we’re doing something a little different. After last week’s post about Dobson and The Strong-Willed Child I heard from a reader who I’m going to call Bobbi.

I had gotten rather focused on the spanking encouraged by James Dobson (up to one or two times at a session, with a belt, depending upon the level of misbehavior). But Bobb…

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